Wednesday, April 10, 2013

Psychic Timing and When To Move On, Part 2

Good morning people! It's another warm, sunny day in Ga, and I hope you are enjoying the same nice weather.  It's also pollen season here, so it's the sneezy time of the year. 
  Have you decided it is time to move on in some part of your life?  Or are you unsure and questioning the whole thing?  It may be a  time when you are so confused about your decision that it is almost impossible to hear your own inner guidance.  If so, my first suggestion is to calm yourself and try a short meditation. You must clear the mind of confusion before you can see a clear path ahead of you.  You don't have to do a "formal" meditation, while sitting in a lotus position, for hours on end.  All you may need to do is take several deep breaths, sit back, and close your eyes.  Do this at a time when you are alone, or at least in a quiet place. The idea is not to force a decision, but to allow  a decision to come to you.  This is a time when your spirit guides, angels, or maybe your higher self will speak to you.  It is a time when you may be given specific information  that could help you make your decision. As an example, let's say you are trying to decide whether you should leave a serious relationship in your life.  You have invested some time in this relationship and have strong feelings for your loved one.  However, you also have strong suspicions your partner is cheating on you, and is definately not acting in a loving way.  You feel that you are walking some kind of tight rope every day and are afraid you could fall off at any time.  This is an agonizing feeling, and the decision to leave is not one you can make lightly.
  Now, during your meditation is the time to ask your spirit guides, angels, or higher power to speak to you.  Let all thoughts of the everyway world, all stress and difficulties drift away.  Do not focus on your problem, but rather ask your question to the universe.  You might say or just think, "Is it in my highest and best interest that I leave my relationship at this time?"  You may receive an answer right away, such as a voice speaking in your mind, or even outside your head.  Don't worry, this isn't anything wierd!  Again, it could be your guides or angels speaking to you.  You might see a small or even a complete vision, such as you heading alone down a solitary road. Alternately, the vision might be the opposite, like you and your loved one, hand in hand at the altar.  I think the meanings of those visions are pretty clear.  The first vision certainly says it's time for you to move on.  The second vision is probably telling you to wait, and take a second look.  There could be more and better to come in this relationship.
  You may see nothing more than colors, or hear one word or two during your meditation.  If you see a green color for instance, it may be telling you to go, leave. Certainly a red light could be saying, stop, wait.  Please never doubt any image, sound, or message that you receive during your meditation.  It may very well seem unclear at the time.  Write the message or image down and think about it for a few days.  It may suddenly hit you what it means, and it could be important.
  What if you absolutely get no  message or sign during your meditation?  You could be blocking your message, by doubting what you do see.  Maybe something unusual did come into your mind during the meditation but you didn't think it was anything important, or psychic.  As an example, the image of a sexy girl walking beside your lover crossed your mind.  You discounted the image because you thought it was just your imagination and jealousy flairing up.  That might be true, or you could have received a strong psychic vision of the person he was actually sneaking around seeing!
   If you truly received no psychic guidance, it may not be time for that, or to make a decision.  I used to have a framed print that said, "Not to decide is to decide".  Keep it in mind!
  My next post will be about other ways to determine when it is time to move on.  Until then, blessings from Psykiksister.

Tuesday, April 9, 2013

Psychic Timing and When to Move On

Good morning everybody!  It's a glorious day here in Ga, but getting hot.  I would really like to live in a temperate place, like where it is 60-75 degrees all year long.  If you know a place like that, please post and tell me.  I will definately be moving on!
  Today I am posting about psychic timing and how to know when it is time to move on.  Maybe you are wondering in your life if it is time to move on, from a relationship, a residence, a job, perhaps even your entire lifestyle.  Changes are always difficult, and it can often be hard to tell when we should make those changes.  Sometimes we agonize for months, even years, in trying to make a decision for change.  If this is the case for you right now, maybe you need to learn a little about psychic timing.
  Psychic timing and time in the spiritual world are often quite different from time in the real world.  As an example, during a reading, you may be told by the psychic or advisor that you may end an relationship during the next few months.  Please don't ever take this timing to be the gospel truth.  There are so many variables here, first the experience and skill of the reader.  Then we have to consider why the reader felt the relationship would end "in the next few months". Was she told this information from her spirit guide or yours?  Or from another spiritual being, such as an angel or a relative who has passed on? If so, you really have to be lenient about the time.  Time in the spiritual world is very different from our time.  What might be three months to us could be a year or more in the spiritual world.  In some cases,  three months in the spiritual world could even be three days!
We just can't expect spiritual time to be the same in another existence as it is in our world.
  So if spiritual time isn't the same as our time, how can we ever decide when to make a change?  My best advice is to listen to spiritual messages you personally receive.  I honestly believe that for  most major changes we have to make in our lives, there is or could be, a warning or signs in advance. We must take the time to look at our lives honestly, listen to psychic information we are given, and take heed of our dreams. These things can be very hard to do, even painful. For example, at work you keep hearing whispers and seeing subtle signs that a number of people are going to be laid off. Then you have a very psychic and/or vivid dream that you are looking for a new job, but you ignore it.  One day very soon you are called into the office and politely sent on your way. If you had listened to your dream, and those whispers at the office, you could have been looking for a job well before you were laid off.  Hoping to continue in your position is good, but listening to spiritual signs can be more helpful.
  What about those times in our lives when sudden disasters strike and we must make changes quickly, or even worse, Fate makes them for us?  This is true of almost all lives, and part of the big picture.  Think about this: if we knew all the bad things that were going to happen in our lives, would we really want to continue?  We have to face disaster as it happens, and this is how we build our strength.  Even with the worst sudden disasters though, we often receive warnings first, if we are meant to receive them.  Let us say that during a reading you are doing for yourself, you get a strong feeling that there will be a death of someone close to you, even though no one in your family is sick.  Please don't panic, but maybe it is a warning that it is time to contact your family and check in with them.  We often receive these messages in advance of disasters so we can  at least be ready in small ways.  Nothing can ever really prepare us for a loss of someone close, but if we listen to signs we are given, they can help more than you can imagine.
  In my next post I will give you some ideas about ways to tell when it is time to move on.  Until then, blessings from Psykiksister.

Friday, April 5, 2013

Psychic Self Protection, Part 5

Hello everybody!  It's a beautiful day in Ga again, and I hope you are having a lovely day as well. 
  This is my last post on psychic self protection.  Today I am writing about sending bad energy back to the person who sent it to you in the first place. You must think about this very carefully before you do it.  One of the big spiritual rules is that it is okay to protect yourself, but it is not okay to attack.  In the everyday or mundane world, this means you shouldn't go around punching people in the nose, but if they punch you first, then you may have to  protect yourself.  You don't want to end up in front of Judge Judy or in People's Court after all!  So on a spiritual basis, if you deliberately send someone bad or harmful energy, there will be some karmic price to pay.
Maybe later you will go to a "spiritual court" because of your negative actions. 
  Now I'm not saying always be meek and mild, allowing people to punch you or send you negative energy.  In the everyday world, we need to learn to protect ourselves, and in the spiritual  realm, we put up our psychic shields.
If your psychic shield isn't protecting you from a psychic attack however, do practice some more on making it stronger.  Until you can achieve this, you may want to consider sending back the negative energy.  It is always good if you know who sent the energy, but that is not always the case. I'd like to think that most of us have few if any real enemies.  Think about it for a little while, and try to determine who would deliberately send you bad energy.  Maybe an ex-lover who is involved in the magickal world?  Or that nasty co-worker who claims to be deeply involved in voodoo or a similiar belief?  I have nothing against voodoo or Santeria, by the way.  I find them fascinating religions.  If you truly have no idea who might be psychically attacking you, don't worry about it.  It might be someone who has taken offense at a small thing, and built it up in their head.
  If you feel strongly that you know who is sending you bad energy, you should write down their name, or if you have their photo, get it out. These are  spiritual links to that person, and  strong links. Any thing that belonged to that person is good, too, like an old shirt, or brush.  Place any of these things or similiar items on your table, altar, or wherever you like.  Take a small stand-up mirror, or any  kind of mirror you have and place it on the table, too.  No need to rush out and buy one, just use what you have.  Light a couple of candles and incense if you like.  Candles and incense are good to clear the mind and build focus. Take a few deep breaths and touch the person's name you have written down, their photo, or any other item of theirs you have.  Now say aloud, "I take this energy you have sent to me, and send it back to thee".  You must put some focus and power into saying this.  The more energy you put into this work, the more powerful it will be.  See the person in you mind, and look at their photo.  Now pick up the mirror and say, "Mirror, mirror, reflect this energy back to the one who sent it to me."  At this point, just leave the mirror and photo on the table overnight, if you can. 
  If you don't know who is sending you bad energy, just do the work above and don't worry about names, photos, etc.  If you are uncertain if someone you know is sending the energy, don't focus on anyone at all.  It's best to let the universe send the energy  where it needs to go, if you are uncertain at all.
  Until next time, blessings from Psykiksister.

Thursday, April 4, 2013

Psychic Self Protection, Part 4

Hello everybody! It's a rainy day here in GA and I'm not liking it.  Bring back the sunshine please!
  Today I am posting about using psychic self protection if you feel you are being psychically attacked.  I get asked about this all the time, from many different types of people.  First, let me say there really are times when you can be psychically attacked.  However, a real psychic attack might not be quite as common as you think.  Psychic attacks can come in several ways.  There is an attack when someone just sends you "negative energy".  This usually comes from someone who doesn't know much about the psychic world, but is thinking very bad thoughts about you.  Maybe they have some kind of grudge against you, or simply don't like you.  They don't have the knowledge or ability to really psychically attack you, but thinking bad thoughts about you can be enough.  In this case, you may just suddenly feel uncomfortable, unhappy, or depressed.  Maybe you will even get a glimpse of their face or feel that they are very unhappy with you.  This is a case of someone who isn't deliberately trying to injure you, but their negative thoughts have an effect on you anyway.
  The second example is much worse, because this psychic attack may come from someone or even a group who is well versed in metaphysical knowledge.  In other words, they may know how to put a curse on you, put the "root" on you, or send you some really bad energy.  This is definately something that is done deliberately.  Not everybody has the ability, knowledge, and most of all, the desire, to do this kind of thing.  Please keep in mind there is always a karmic price to pay for attacking another person psychically.  Just as you might pay a price for punching someone in the nose, you would also pay a price in the spiritual world for sending someone negative energy.  A traditional rule in the spiritual world says that the good you do comes back to you three times over, but the bad you do comes back three times three.  In other words, if you deliberately send someone negative energy, at some point it will come back to you nine times! 
   If you feel that you are under psychic attack, the first thing to do is really question why.  Do you have an enemy?  Is there truly  someone out there who hates you enough to wish you ill?  Many times people tell me that they think they have been cursed, but after discussing this, I do not believe it is the case.  It is very easy to feel cursed, or ill wished if everything is going wrong in your life.  You have to really examine your life  if this is happening to you.  Are you just going through a long string of bad luck like the car breaks down, then you didn't get the promotion you wanted, and  to top it off, your lover breaks up with you?  These are all terrible things, but are not usually  signs that someone is cursing you or sending you bad energy.  These things are just life, people.  It also may be time to check your attitude to see if you are thinking negatively, instead of  putting out positive energy.  We attract whatever energy we put out.  In other words, think negatively all the time, and you will attract negative stuff into your life.
  So how do you know if you are being psychically attacked?  My best description is that you "feel" it.  You may feel a sudden strong wave of depression, sadness, even sickness.  The key here is that there is no reason, no real reason at all that you are feeling this, that it is happening.  If you felt a big wave of depression, and this is not at all the norm for you, it could be that someone is sending you negative energy.  Trying to make you feel bad.  Before deciding someone is cursing you, look at what happened in your everyday life just before that.  Did you suddenly feel depressed because you ate a big slice of cake when you were planning on dieting all week?  It is usually that with me, LOL!  Or did you suddenly start feeling worried after hearing that another employee is likely to get the job you wanted?  Sometimes it can be difficult to pin down why we suddenly feel bad, but you should look at your own life before deciding someone is putting the "root" on you.
   Another thing to keep in mind is that it would be extremely rare that even the most knowledgable magickal practicioner could effect your life for years.  Curses and negative energy wear off over time.  It would take so much effort, energy, and time on the part of the person cursing you, that it would hardly be feasible.  If someone truly hates you enough to try and curse you for years, I'm sure you would know who that person is and why they would be pouring so much energy into the curse.
  The two best things you can do if you feel you are being psychically attacked is first, put up a strong psychic shield.  If bad energy can't get through your shield, it can't harm you.  The second, and most important, is refuse to accept the bad energy.  Literally say, and believe, "I refuse to accept this energy, and it will never harm me".  The refusal to believe in the curse and accept it into your energy is extremely important.  Do not let this energy into your life and simply turn it away.
  My next post will deal with ways to send back negative energy to whoever may be sending it to you.  Until then, blessings from Pskiksister.

Wednesday, April 3, 2013

Psychic Self Protection, Part 3

Good morning, everyone!  Grey skies today here in Ga.  I know some people love the rain, but not me.  Hey, I'm a Leo, we are children of the sun!
  Today I have a few ideas for you in dealing with just plain irritating people and situations.  Now we are not talking about people who mean you harm, or are trying to send you negative energy deliberately.  I will post about that subject next time. This post is about people who are flat out irritating you by talking incessantly, boring you  to death, or driving you up the wall.
  If you are a wonderfully patient and saintly person who can listen to the most deadly bore and keep on smiling, this post is not for you. I applaud your patience, but I don't think I'm much like you.  I try to be patient and understanding, realizing that sometimes everyone really needs to talk.  Some people are just more verbose than others.  Still, what about those times at the office when another employee  interupts your work by telling you every boring detail of their life?  You need to get back to that project that is due at the end of the day, not hear about your co-worker's newest life drama.  This is a time when you can try one or two psychic things to help the situation.  The first thing I would do is a simple technique that doesn't need any practice whatsoever.  All you have to do is cross your arms and legs!  That's right, just cross your arms over your body, and cross your ankles or legs.  This closes your psychic energy output and makes you  less "available" to the other person.  This may suddenly make them feel uncomfortable, like they are talking to a wall.  Your energy isn't available to them any more.  You don't feel open and welcoming to all their talk.  More aware people could feel this lack of energy right away and have a sudden desire to stop talking and leave.  Other less aware people may gradually slow down in their conversation, feel uncomfortable and then leave.  Either way, it's good for you!
  A similiar version of crossing your arms and legs, involves strongly crossing your hands, grabbing each wrist with the other hand.  Squeeze your wrists firmly with your hands, closing off your energy, and cutting off their talk.  This one works best for truly block-headed interlopers who just don't get the message.  Practice that one before hand, and envision your hands as they grasp your wrists as suddenly cutting off their flow of chatter.  No, please do not envision yourself doing anything bad to them, just cutting off their talk!  One of the strongest rules in the metaphysical world is that it is always okay to protect yourself, but it is not okay to harm others.  Keep that in mind in your mundane and magickal work and you will never go wrong. The best thing about either one of these ideas is that you can use them anytime and anywhere without anyone knowing what you are doing.
  Another kind of situation you might encounter in your everyday life could occur at a party, bar, or get-together.  Let's say someone you are not the least attracted to has latched on to you, and you are just too polite to walk away.  First,  although I am a very polite person, I think it can be a big mistake to be "too polite".  Sometimes by being afraid of hurting another persons' feelings, we put ourselves into awkward situations. Here is where another psychic self protection idea can work for you.  This is a psychic energy technique, similar to forming your energy shield.  In this case, you will send the other person some harmless but effective energy to leave you alone. 
  Practice this one at home as it may take a little time before you get the hang of it.  Take a couple of deep breaths and clear your mind.  Remember, clarity and focus brings good results in metaphysical work.  Now envision a dark ball of energy in your mind.  Let it grow and expand.  You can make the energy ball black, grey, brown, etc.  When you feel you have put enough energy into the ball, gently, yes I said gently, waft it over into the other person's head.  Just think about it going directly into their third eye, right in the middle of their forehead.  You do not want to "throw" the energy ball at them, as the purpose of this exercise is not to harm them, but make them leave.  So please be gentle with the energy ball!  The other person might feel this right away and suddenly see you as someone he or she doesn't want to be around.  It may take them a few minutes, so continue envisioning your energy ball. 
  In either of these situations you could always put up your own energy shield before trying other techniques.  If you put up a strong enough energy shield of your own, you probably won't need anything else.
  Until next time, blessings from Psykiksister.

Tuesday, April 2, 2013

Psychic Self Protection, Part 2

Hello everybody!  What a glorious day it is here in Ga.  Time to open the windows and let the sunshine in.
  Today I want to teach you to do a psychic shield for self protection.  I'm sure some of you already know how to do this, or may even do it without knowledge of how it is accomplished.  The spirit has its own forms of protection, and sometimes we erect a strong energy shield around ourselves without thinking about it first.  As an example,  imagine you are in the same room with someone you dislike very much.  The first thing we often do in those circumstances is "withdraw into ourselves", or literally pull away.  You may physically step away from the person you dislike, but the spirit does the same thing.  It may move away to a higher spiritual plane, or put up a energy block against the other person.  You may not realize this is happening, but the person you dislike might feel it.  Suddenly you could see them turn away from you, and an uncomfortable situation is quickly averted.
  Our plan though, is to learn how to conciously erect a psychic shield.  Once you learn how to do a shield, it can be put in place anytime, and any place.  The best thing to do is practice this at home first until you feel comfortable with it, and satisfied with your results.  Don't worry if your first efforts are weak or not what you wish.  It takes time to learn any kind of energy work, and alot of focus.
  The better you can envision things or picture them in you mind, the stronger you can make your energy shield.  If you are not great at envisioning things, that's okay, you will learn as you go along.  The first thing to do is relax and try to clear your mind while you are practicing your psychic shield.  Close your eyes, and take a deep breath.  Now begin to see a glowing, warm, cocoon of energy starting to build all around your body.  Make your shield any color you like, whatever feels protective and safe to you.  A shield of pure crystal white is very protective, but you must choose whatever color you like.  In your mind, see the energy glowing around your body, all the way from under your feet, right to above the  top of your head.  Completely encase your body in the energy shield, and see it vibrating and glowing around you.  Tell yourself that you are completely protected now, that nothing can touch you.  If you are a religious or spiritual person, you might tell yourself that your God, Goddess, or higher power is protecting you with this energy shield.  Feel the shield glowing warm, completely covering you with its energy.  The clearer you can see and feel the shield around you, the stronger it will be.  The more focus you can put into your shield, the better it will work.
  It may take you some time to learn to erect a shield when you need it.  In an uncomfortable or stressful situation, it may be difficult for you to focus on building a shield around yourself.  The good news on this is that once you really learn to erect an energy shield, it will often build itself when you need it.  Yes, that is right, the shield will start building itself when the spirit perceives it is necessary.  It might take some work before you get to that point though, unless you are truly a gifted person.  So please, practice, practice, practice.  Once you get the hang of it, do try it when you just happen to be in the room with that person we talked about before.  You know, the one you dislike so much.  Put up a strong enough shield, and that person may never bother you again!
  Any questions about psychic shields, please leave me a post.  Until next time, blessings from Psykiksister.

Monday, April 1, 2013

Psychic Self Protection

Good afternoon everybody!  I hope you all had a lovely weekend and didn't eat too many chocolate bunnies.  It's a beautiful day here in GA, just right for opening the windows and feeling the breeze.
  Today I am posting about psychic self protection.  Now this is not just a subject for people working in the psychic field, but for everyone.  There are many times in life when you could use a little protection and I will give you a few ideas how to accomplish this.
  First, let me give you some examples of when and why you might need psychic self protection.  Let's say you work in a large office, with a wide variety of people as co-workers.  Most are nice, but there is this one man or woman who always gives you the creeps.  You know what I mean; whenever you are around them, your skin crawls, or you just feel plain uncomfortable. Sometimes this is because the person is actually trying to send you negative energy for some reason.  Other times it's because they are just a negative individual and it stresses out people around them.
  Another reason you might need psychic self protection is if  someone actually feels threatening to you.  For example, you are waiting on a bus, or subway train.  You notice a stranger staring at you in a disturbing way.  This is a time when you immediately need to put up your "psychic shields".
A strong psychic shield might help you in this situation, by making you seem less visible to the other person. It could also ward off his evil intentions and make him back away.  Now, I'm not discounting the use of a cell phone to dial for help, a rape whistle, and most of all a good 45 in your purse, but psychic self protection might avert the situation before it begins.
   You might also feel a need for psychic protection as you begin to delve into the metaphysical world or expand your knowledge about it.  As we develop our psychic abilities, often we exude or emit a strong psychic energy which is attractive and noticible.  This can also be true if we have a strong, but undeveloped psychic sense.  Other people with similiar abilities can feel and see this energy,  and spirits can also be attracted to it.  If you happened to meet someone who does negative energy work, black magick for instance, they might be very interested in the psychic energy you are exuding.  You might suddenly feel a dark, chilling energy directed at you, that makes you want to run far, far away.  Does it sound like something you see on TV, just not real?  I promise you this can and does happen, and it can be much worse than I described.  This is where you need a strong psychic shield and to learn some psychic self protection.
  Many years ago when I knew very little about the "dark side" and almost nothing about psychic protection, I had an encounter similiar to the above example.  While in a metaphysical bookstore, looking at some astrology books, a woman came and stood next to me.  I didn't pay her any attention, but maybe I should have.  Apparently she was eager to look at the astrology books and didn't want me there.  I suddenly felt an total body chill and felt overwhelmingly afraid.  I quickly looked at her and could clearly see she had sent me some negative energy and wanted me to leave.  I didn't say a word, just left. 
  So you see psychic self protection can be very useful in many different types of situations.  My next two posts will teach you how to do a psychic shield, deflect negative energy, and how to send it back from where it came.
Until then, blessings from Psykiksister.