Spirit Attachment: True Or False, Part 3

Good afternoon, everyone!  It's a hot day here in GA, but I'm sitting here in air-conditioned comfort.  I grew up in a little frame house with no air-conditioning, and still remember how hot the summers were.  We were used to it at that time, but now I bless whoever invented AC!
  Today I am posting about spirit attachments, from the living.  That may sound complicated, and indeed it is. I'm sure you are wondering how a living spirit can attach itself to another living spirit.  These type of attachments are different than the ones we have discussed previously.  These are usually  spirit attachments from people we love, or care about.  A spirit attachment from a living person often occurs because we care about them too much! 
   These attachments do not happen because we are in the wrong place at the wrong time, unlike the attachments we discussed earlier.  They also have nothing to do with haunted houses or places.  They occur for two very complicated reasons: we have a needy person in our life and/or we accept too much responsibility for that person.  Now there are many occasions in life when we have to accept responsibility for another individual.  We must care for our children, sometimes our spouses or partners, and often elderly parents.  These responsibilities are part of life and do not automatically mean we will develop a spirit attachment.  Sometimes we accept too much  responsibility for another person, even if that person does not need or want our help.  We open our heart and spirit to this person, and give too much.  This can cause a spirit attachment if the loved one becomes too needy, and begins to lean on us more than necessary.
  Some people in our lives can simply be too needy in themselves.  Think of the example I gave you yesterday of a "energy vampire".  What if your partner, child, or elderly parent, is so needy of your time and attention, that it simply drains all your energy?  This can be the beginning of a spirit attachment by the living.  These types of spirit attachments can start in a very positive way when we are simply caring for  someone we love.  If the loved one is too needy however, or we give too much, our spirit becomes drained.  The person's spirit has attached itself to our spirit, usually at the heart chakra. 
  The heart chakra is an energy center in the chest, one of a system of energy centers in the body.  The heart chakra is where our emotions reside.  When we are grieving or "heart-broken" we often feel great pain in the heart chakra.  It often feels like a physical thing.  A spirit attachment from the living is often felt at the heart chakra, the center of our emotions.  Someone we love or care for has attached their spirit there, and is draining our emotions.  This is not a deliberate act.  The "care-taking" person has given too much of themselves to the needy individual.  Their spirit is being sucked away gradually, even if the other person has no desire to harm them.
  If you have a spirit attachment by a living person, you may begin to feel a slight discomfort or emotional pain in the chest area. This is the heart chakra speaking to you.  There may be a feeling of heaviness in the chest. This can feel physical, so be careful here.  If you have  chest related problems such as heart, lungs, etc.  please do not confuse this with a spirit attachment! Spirit attachments can seem vague at times, heavy at others.  They can be very temporary depending on the situation or last for years.
  You might also feel this kind of attachment on the shoulders or upper back.  If the love one feels like a true burden to you that you must carry around, this may be where the attachment lies. 
  If you feel that a spirit attachment from a living person has occurred, you must first and foremost look at your own involvement in the situation. Often for our own reasons we have opened our spirits a little too much to the other person.  We have been too kind, too giving, or accepted too much responsibility.  There are times we have to accept these responsibilities, and give every bit of energy  we can to our loved ones.  This is a good thing and we should be applauded for it.  It is only when we knowingly or unknowingly make someone too dependent on us that our spirit suffers.  That is when we develop a spirit attachment from the living.
  Until next time, blessings from Psykiksister.