Thursday, July 18, 2013

Spiritual Visualizations, Part 2

Hello everyone!  As we say down here in the South,  "Is it hot enough for you?"  After a really big rainstorm last night, we have blue skies and a very hot day.  It finally feels like July in GA!
  Today I am writing again about spiritual visualizations.  This blog and the next will give you visualizations about specific problems.  The visualization today will be geared towards problems in a struggling relationship.  You can also use this visualization with any kind of relationship with another person.  It does not have to be a romantic relationship.  You might try this visualization if you are having problems with a friend, family member, or someone else you care about. 
  Romantic relationships are an incredibly complicated part of life.  We all have an innate drive towards love and fulfillment with another person.  The desire for a mate, for someone to share our life, forms very early in life, and often never ends.  I have seen very elderly people with the same urge for a relationship that I have seen in twenty year olds. This desire to love may be displayed differently as we age, but it is still there.  We still want someone to hold us, kiss us, and share our bed at night.
  All relationships have their good times and their bad times.  We may see some couples in what seems to be a totally peaceful and serene relationship, year after year.  I admire anyone who truly has this kind of relationship, but remember we can only see the relationship from the outside.  We do not know what goes on behind closed doors with other couples.  A couple may seem loving, happy, and content to everyone around them, and then suddenly get divorced.  Sometimes even the two people involved in the relationship aren't aware of what is going on under the surface.  There may be unresolved anger issues, or a secret desire for a more active sex life.  This things and many other issues can cause a deep unhappiness between two people, even if they are never discussed.
  Let's say, however, that you are in a relationship, and you can clearly see the problems.  The only thing you can not see is a solution!  The first thing I would tell you, both in a relationship, and in life, is that not all problems can be solved.  Sometimes we must agree to disagree, and take the good with the bad.  We may just have to accept our partner the way they are, and try to appreciate them for their good qualities.  If there are specific problems that seem to drag on and on with no resolution, you might want to try a spiritual visualization.  This might not only give you a new and better look at the situation, it could help you resolve the problem.
  As I said earlier, this visualization is written for a love relationship.  To use it for any other type of relationship, simply think about the person involved and change the wording  as necessary.
  Do your visualization during a quiet time, and in a peaceful place.  Before you begin, try to identify the actual problem you want to resolve.  If everything in the relationship just seems wrong, or you don't know what the problem really is, that is okay, too.
  Light candles or burn some incense if you like.  These things can be very relaxing, but are not necessary.  Take a few deep breaths and allow yourself to relax.  Calm your mind, and let the everyday world drift away.  When you are ready,  begin to focus on the problem in your relationship.  Start to envision your relationship as a large, blossoming tree.  This is a beautiful tree that the two of you have grown together.  You and your loved one are deeply entwined in this tree together.  Make your tree as beautiful and large as you like.  The longer you have been together, the larger the tree, and the more blossoms. 
  Now envision a branch on the tree as withering and turning black.  This branch represents the problem in your relationship.  It may be a small branch at first that is turning black, but without proper care, it could kill your tree.  If there are many unresolved problems in the relationship, visualize a number of withering branches.  Now, with great love and understanding in your heart, break off these withered branches.  Do not focus anger or pain on the branches, only love.  As you break off the branches, say, " I let go of the pain in my relationship now.  I resolve this problem now."  Do not just say the words, feel them as you speak. Allow new ideas for solutions to your problems to come to you.  Do not try to force this, just allow it to happen.
  Now it is time for new growth in the relationship.  In place of the withered branches you have removed from the tree, envision new, blossoming  branches growing.  This is new life coming back into your relationship.  Your problems have been resolved, the love is renewed.  Make your tree blossom and grow.  It is time for renewal, and for love again.
  After you finish your visualization, remember that you can never change your partner.  You can only change your response to them.  With true love, two people can rise over any problems.
  Until next time, blessings from Psykiksister.

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