Sunday, March 24, 2013

Soul Mates, Part 2

Good morning everybody!  It's another stormy morning in Ga., just right for staying inside and writing my blog.
  Today I am posting about soul mates again, but a different kind of soul mate.  This will be about friends who are our soul mates, or "karma mates" as a friend of mine calls it.  Karma mates are a group of people we share our lives with, from lifetime to lifetime.  In one life, a person may be our closest friend, and in the next life, he or she may be our mother.  Relationships change from life to life, but our loved ones continue to join with us.  This can be an important thing to remember with our romantic soul mates.  That older man, or woman, you feel so drawn to, so in sync with, may have been your actual father or mother in another life.  So you may have a romantic relationship as soul mates in this life, but with one partner playing a "parental"  role.  This is the working of karma, perhaps because in a past life you resented a parent's strong control in your life.  If you never fully came to terms with them in that life, now you have chosen to experience that relationship again, but in a much different way.  This is not at all a bad thing, but rather another chance for you to work through some karma, and move on in the spiritual life. 
  Karma mates will often show up in your life as your closest friends.  Do you have several long-time friends that you "recognized" immediately when you met them? Male or female, it doesn't matter, because these are souls you have known in many lives before.  If you feel very close and emotionally connected to one of these friends, they could have been your romantic soul mate in another life.  In this life, you and/or they have chosen to be simply best friends, a very special relationship in itself. 
  I believe that anyone who is a close, long-term person in your life is one of your karma mates.  Maybe you have an ex-husband, ex-wife or partner you were with for many years, but have now gone your separate ways.  These people are definately your karma mates, but you have finished your karmic relationship in this life.  It is time to move on and seek a twin flame, or even your second or third twin flame.  Yes, I believe it's possible to have more than one real soul mate or twin flame.  Look at this way: maybe you married early in life to someone you truly loved and felt was your twin flame.  Unfortunately, after ten or twenty years together, you and your partner have both changed and it is time to move on.  This does not negate your years together, it simply means you have completed your karmic pattern together.  There is very likely another special soul waiting to come into your life, and work on some karma together. 
  The same thing is true if you have loved someone for a long time and that person has sadly passed away.  I talk to clients many times who have experienced this loss and are afraid to look for a relationship again.  They feel that their lost love was their true soul mate and anyone new would be a great deal less than that.  This is right and wrong at the same time.  Yes, their lost love was clearly a soul mate to remain in their lives so long, but he or she does not have to be the only soul mate or less than the first one.  The new soul mate may be quite different, but in their own way, equally as important.  They will offer new karmic lessons to learn, and hopefully, wonderful new experiences.  If you have lost the person you considered a soul mate, I urge you to look at the situation in a new light.  New karma mates are waiting for you, if you only have the courage to look for them.
  Until next time, blessings from Psykiksister.

2 comments:

  1. I like that term "Karma Mates"

    Many times in life, I've gone to a class, new job, or meeting and when I walked in, I felt like some of the people there were people I already knew. Those always turn out to be people that have a significant impact on my life as friends or co-workers. I've always thought of them as past life connections...Karma Mates - Very Cool! :)

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  2. Thank you for your comment. I know I have met several very special friends like that!

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