Saturday, March 23, 2013

Soul Mates

Hello everyone!  I hope you are enjoying your weekend and that your weather is better than it is here in GA. A big thunderstorm awakened me this morning, followed closely by the cat hiding under the bed.  If the thunder had been much louder I might have hidden under there, too!
  Today I am writing about soul mates.  What are they, who are they, and how do your find yours?  "Is he or she my soul mate?" is one of the more frequent questions I get asked by my clients when I do readings.  So many of us long to find a true soul mate, someone that will fulfill all our desires, and more.  That perfect person to enjoy a deeply passionate and harmonious relationship with for all of our life. It sounds almost too good to be true, but is it really meant for us to find such a person?
  My answer is yes, I think we do have soul mates, but they may not always be exactly as described.  There are a few different types of soul mates, and they are not always meant to stay with us forever.  The type that we romantic souls dream about is called your "twin flame".  This would be a partner who is much like you, with similiar interests and desires.  You feel drawn to this person as soon as you meet them; there is always a strong chemistry between you. There may be unplanned meetings, sometimes for years, before you ever really  get to know each other.  You just kind of keep running into each other, like in classes or through mutual friends. This person is often your best friend before they ever become your lover.  You will have a deep understanding of each other and an unusually smooth relationship.
  What if you have met someone, felt they were your soul mate, only to be badly hurt by that person six months later?  Unfortunately, you may have been right, they were a type of soul mate, just not the type you were wanted.  There are other types of soul mates that come into our lives who are not meant to stay forever.  We join with these soul mates to learn karmic lessons, good and bad.  If you were dumped by someone you felt was your soul mate, this could have been for a strong karmic purpose in your life or theirs. Maybe you were supposed to learn to be stronger in your relationships, or to ask for more and put up with less.  Relationships of any kind are always are where we learn the most, no matter whether the lessons are happy or sad.
  I call relationships, "assignments" because I believe these people are sent into our lives so we can learn.  Often the lesson is to get out of the relationship and move on, rather than staying and suffering through it. I don't believe we can ever really know all the reasons someone comes into our lives, I think that is in the hands of a higher power. We meet who we meet, and we are attracted to  that person for many reasons, both mundane and spiritual.  Soul mates can stay in our lives from a very short time, to a lifetime.  We all have many karmic purposes on this earth, and sometimes they are not fullfilled with the first love of our life.  Sometimes we have to keep looking for a true twin flame.
  Wishing you all a real twin flame, blessings from Psykiksister.

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