Good afternoon, everyone! It's strange weather here in GA today, with a few snow flakes flying around. After several weeks of warm weather, these chilly days just make you feel colder. I think Mother Nature is having a good laugh at us all!
So have you found your soul mate, or maybe one of them yet? Still looking around and feeling a little frustrated with no love on the horizon? Maybe it is time for a new approach and a concentrated search for someone special. There are so many ways to meet people these days, with computer dating high on the list. I'm not going to recommend any sites for meeting people, but I can tell you from my own experience and from people I know, these sites can work for you. My best advice for computer dating is take your time and be cautious. There are plenty of single men and women seeking a mate, but you are not going to be attracted or even interested in everyone who answers your ad. We aren't meant to be attracted to everyone. Think what the world would be like if we had a strong physical reaction to everyone we met! You must be very selective and find someone whose soul speaks to yours. Remember, you are seeking a true soul mate this time.
There are two things you might consider doing before heading out on your big soul mate search. One, make a list, an honest list, please, of what you are really looking for in a mate. If you are only drawn to people with blue eyes and blond hair, put that on the list. Look deep inside yourself as you make your list and decide what you really need. Is it someone kind, considerate, but financially stable? Please put that on your list and keep it in mind while on your search. It doesn't mean you can't consider someone with brown eyes, black hair, and currently unemployed, but you should be honest with yourself about what your really need. Sometimes our soul mates will turn out to be quite different than our list. If so, this might mean our spirit is still working on some karmic issues that will come to the surface in the new relationship. It could also mean you may need to take some time to look deeply into the new person in your life. You might just find that once you look past the surface, everything you desired in a soul mate is right there in front of you!
The second thing you might consider before hitting the dating trail is consulting a good astrologer or simply doing a little astrology study for yourself. Just about any astrologer can tell you what kind of match would work for you, but a good astrologer should be able to tell you when and maybe even where you might meet this person. This information should go way past, "Yes, your soul mate is an Aries, and you will meet them sometime in the next five years, ". Please put your money back in your pocket and go right out the door if this is the kind of thing you hear! You should be told something like, "I think your soul mate could be an Aries, with moon in Leo, Venus in Libra," etc, and that "you might meet this person in a work environment this fall". Now that is some useful stuff!
If money is tight or you don't know a good astrologer, consider reading a few astrology books or doing some research online. There are plenty of useful and perfectly valid online sites that will give you free astrology charts. Some of these will do a chart and info showing you what type of mate would be good for you. Don't take it all too literally, but it might be helpful in your search, and fun, too. Print out or write down any information you get, then as you meet new people you can compare their birthdays to your charts. Don't rule out people who don't compare well, just keep it in mind. You don't want to say, "Oh, no, I couldn't possibly date a Taurus with moon in Virgo, I'm looking for an Aries!" There are plenty of successful marriages that don't add up, according to astrology. It can be very interesting to see how easily you do fit together with someone whose astrology chart matches up with yours though.
On a later blog I will write more about astrology and love. I find astrology so interesting and useful, I have checked out every man's birthday I've met since I was in my teens! That's the truth, ya'll!
Any questions on soul mates, please leave me a post. Until next time, blessings from Psykiksister.
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